A Letter to Parents in a Time of Unrest

Su Rubinoff has been an Early Childhood educator at MWS for more than 25 years and has completed an in-depth training in Kingian Nonviolence Conflict Reconciliation and Mediation at URI. With families already facing unprecedented challenges caused by the coronavirus pandemic, Su used one of her regular parent letters to offer support in addressing tensions arising from the recent terrible events in Minneapolis and elsewhere.

Waldorf education was born in 1919 in response to the trauma and social upheaval of WWI. While teachers of older students might speak with their classes about difficult social issues, a different approach is needed with younger children. In this letter, Su uses her expertise in teaching children aged 3 – 6 years to share how parents can best support the continued healthy development of their child.

 

“No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.”

~ Nelson Mandela

 

Dear Friends,

I am so shook up by what is occurring in our country. A lot is being asked of you these days; to be parents, teachers, and now you need to be present for your child in a way that you rarely have needed to before. How do we, as adults, process the events of this past week?

As with many things we are careful with what we say to the young child, because they are not little adults, but so often they pick up our inner mood. I have to believe the world is good and that is what I want to pass along to the children. I want to give them hope! I have seen and heard images of hope, even amidst the terrible scenes unfolding around the world, and those are what I am holding on to.

We work with kindness daily at Meadowbrook and certainly in our class. While we do not presently have a lot of racial diversity, we still plant the seeds, either overtly or through being a role model worthy of imitation. We end of our circle time every day by saying this verse together:

Kind hearts are the gardens

Kind thoughts are the roots

Kind words are the blossoms

Kind deeds are the fruits.

The values of understanding, cooperation, listening, being inclusive, and so much more are alive in Morning Glory. Even our  very youngest children quickly learn our customs; if there is a problem, get help, (when another wants to join) ‘there is always room for one more’, and treat others the way you want to be treated. This is their foundation and I am hopeful it will grow with them through their lives.

But we all need to be doing better as humans, now! I want to change the world which is why I became a teacher, and it is so hard to do while I am at home and not with your wonderful children. I don’t know what your children are aware of, or what questions they are asking, but I am here to support you. To listen and try to figure this out. Together.

Take good care and remember to feed yourself, literally and figuratively!

 

An Alum Reflects on His Journey

Deven Bussey is the eldest of five siblings who have attended, or still attend, MWS. We are glad that our alumni stay in touch and share their news with us. Here, Deven reflects on how his Meadowbrook experience prepared him for his unique career path. 

I graduated from Meadowbrook Waldorf School back in 2004, and while there are a lot of things that have led me to where I am today (which is Taipei, Taiwan!), Meadowbrook played a big role. I moved to Zhuhai, China in 2012 after graduating from Skidmore College. I lived there for two years, teaching English at Sun-Yat-Sen University, before moving to Chengdu for the better part of five years. During that time, I studied Mandarin and worked as a college counselor, before moving into video production work, which is my current focus. I moved to Taipei in February to pursue more opportunities in this area.

Over the past four or so years, I’ve produced and directed music documentaries, shot a pilot for a TV series, traveled around China shooting a tourism project, filmed concerts, music videos and much more. My next project will be a web TV series in Taiwan about a group of students learning how to produce electronic music and market themselves as up-and-coming artists.

I’d say the most exiting project was a documentary I shot with my friend called Break The Wall, about the history of underground dance music in China. For that film, I had the chance to travel to places such as Beijing, Hong Kong, Shanghai Yunnan among many others, and interview some of the most influential people in the electronic music scene in that part of the world. Finally, I was able to attend ADE (Amsterdam Dance Event), when the film premiered there!

Throughout this journey, I like to look back on how I came to be doing these things. They weren’t things that I planned to do but more the result of “hey, that sounds interesting and unique, why not do that?” This way of thinking is something I attribute to Meadowbrook and my Waldorf education. For example, there were many opportunities I got in China just by being willing to speak Mandarin and try something outside my comfort zone. I went to smaller cities to play guitar and sing at events where a lot of the people had never seen a foreigner in the flesh before! I gave a speech in Chinese about tourism in Sichuan for a forum attended by many of the regional governors. My proudest fun moment may have been when I made it onto the pages of Vogue Taiwan modeling a winter jacket for a marketing campaign that some of my friends were doing!

To me, these experiences, while a bit out-of-the-box, have been some of the most worthwhile as they led me to meet people and explore places that I would have never had the chance to normally. I can also see how a different version of myself would have dismissed some of these opportunities as “not worthwhile” or “too strange”, just as some might view Eurythmy (though I can’t imagine my 10-year-old self ever thinking that Eurythmy was not the best use of my time…).

I was back visiting Rhode Island this past summer, and I remember talking with my younger brother, Will, who had just graduated from Meadowbrook and was looking forward to starting at The Prout School. He enjoyed his time at Meadowbrook but he was telling me how excited he was to do more “typical” things, like join sports teams etc. I understood what he meant, but I also had to smile a little, having gone to the same high school myself. I went on to tell him that, of all my educational stops (including the Catholic high school and a liberal arts college), Meadowbrook is easily the one that made the greatest impact on me, and is the experience that stands out the most, even 15 years later. There’s nothing wrong with “typical” but the older I’ve gotten, the more I’ve been able to see the things I thought I may have been missing out on as a middle-school student were just that: typical.

Betty Merner and the Class of 2004 (Deven in the black hat)

Talking with my brother also got me thinking about how some of the unique things that I learned at Meadowbrook have helped me in really practical ways. I’ve become quite comfortable doing public speaking and voice-over work, and I know that the yearly plays I participated in at Meadowbrook set a foundation for that. So much of what we learned at Meadowbrook was also taught through the form of stories and I truly believe that helped me build up a strong sense of narrative structure that has helped me a lot with my recent film work. We were even decorating a set for a music video recently and I was brought back to one time when we decorated our classroom as a “crystal cave” for gnomes!

Finally, as someone who was never a math lover, I can confirm that I still do simple multiplication in my head using the rhymes that I was taught in 2nd or 3rd grade! I will never forget that “9 times 8 is seventy-twoooooo, then 80, 88, 96 and we’re through!”

Last summer, I had a chance to reconnect with my teacher Mrs. Merner and a few of the students from our graduating class. One thing that really struck me was how, for such a small class, we had all ended up following very different and interesting paths that strayed away from normal or, god forbid, boring! That’s what I’m most grateful to Meadowbrook for. For instilling this sense in me that different isn’t bad and that trying things I may not love, or that I initially would have dismissed as uninteresting, have led to some of the best opportunities and experiences of my life.

 

 

Grateful for Challenge

Following the devastating fire of July 29, MWS received donations from 17 Waldorf schools and kindergartens across America. Faculty and Staff, as well as parents and alumni from Canada and schools around the world, also made individual gifts. As an expression of gratitude, MWS sent an open letter of thanks to the members of the Association of Waldorf Schools of North America (AWSNA), as presented here:

On September 29, two months to the day after the devastating blaze that destroyed our school, we returned to our home site to celebrate Michaelmas. It was a beautiful, clear autumn day and the children were excited to explore their favorite play spaces. For many families, it was their first visit to the school since the fire and the empty slab encircled by chain link fence that confronted them brought a poignancy to the festival. It seemed to inspire the students and, as they performed our traditional pageant, their voices were strong and sure. As the forces of heaven and earth united to bring aid to the besieged villagers, we felt a renewed sense of resolve. St. Michael raised his bright sword and the terrible, fire breathing dragon was tamed. The program ended, as always, with a blessing of gratitude and we stood by the cauldron enjoying the community soup as we contemplated just  how much we have to be thankful for.

The extraordinary outpouring of support that followed the fire was humbling and all of us at MWS are immensely grateful. We were able to move our school into a former public school building that was already home to a small nursery school cooperative. Their leadership graciously welcomed us to share the property with its bright spacious classrooms and extensive playgrounds. Donations of desks, chairs and blackboards arrived from schools and colleges around Rhode Island. More than 3000 pieces of additional classroom furnishings and equipment were received and curated by MWS community volunteers. Still more arrived by mail including donations of books and toys from other Waldorf schools. We were able to open on time with everything we needed for the school year.

The children have settled into their classrooms and we are becoming accustomed to our new surroundings. While a few minor challenges associated with the transition remain, we are also discovering unexpected joys. For example, while we love our woodland home, new ball games are made possible by the brick walls and asphalt playground, and our older students enjoy being within walking and biking distance of town. Parent volunteers continue to prove invaluable as we re-establish the systems that support the daily life of the school and we are grateful for their patience and grace.

Thankfully our families, including those newly or partially enrolled at the time of the fire, have stuck with us and we have not lost any enrollment from the disruptions of the summer. This is a testament to the power of community and the strength of the Waldorf curriculum. New families were welcomed in and trusted that MWS would recover in time to provide the high quality Waldorf education they were counting on. We are grateful for the moral and spiritual support of our fellow Waldorf schools who also believe that, because Waldorf education works with the essence of the human being, what matters most is our relationships with each other and the world as we perceive it. This shared understanding bolsters our teachers as they seek the unique teaching opportunities our present circumstances offer.

We are moving forward quickly and thoughtfully with plans to rebuild the school. Faculty and Staff, and community members with professional expertise in property development, are working with our architects to design the new building. Fortunately most of the grounds remain undisturbed and we can rebuild from the existing footprint. Before the fire, we had recognized that more space was needed to meet our program needs. Planning for a Community Center as well as enhancements for the Early Childhood classrooms had begun and the new design will draw on this work.

While MWS has insurance to cover the cost of replacing what was lost, the new building will require at least $1.75 million from fundraising. More than $191,000 has been received by Meadowbrook Rising – The Campaign to Rebuild Our School via our GoFundMe page and other gifts have been sent directly to the school. We are especially touched by the kindness and generosity of the Waldorf community. We have received gifts from Waldorf teachers, alumni and schools around the country. We are deeply appreciative of this support that gives substance to the spirit of community that will be woven into our new building.  Construction is expected to begin early in 2019 and, if all goes well, we will return the school to its beloved home campus in spring of 2020. We hope we will have an opportunity to welcome you there in the future.

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20th Annual Holiday Faire – New Date & Location

This year our annual Holiday Faire will be held Dec 1 at our temporary location of South Road School. It’s been a year of changes for our community.  While the date and place will be new, the event will continue our tradition of hosting a wonderful and festive family day with crafts for all ages, music, children’s activities, toys and books, and a stunning array of handcrafted and natural gifts for purchase. Please bring your family and friends to enjoy a beautiful day welcoming the holiday season.

Friday, November 30,  6 – 9 pm for adults to enjoy warm hospitality by the bonfire. The holiday store will open at 7 pm Friday evening providing an opportunity to shop out of sight of ‘little eyes’ for a wide range of unique gifts including high quality children’s items.  Schedule a sitter and enjoy an evening out shopping, snacking, and socializing.

Saturday Dec 1, 10 am – 4 pm for families. Saturday is a festive family celebration with music and marionette shows and craft activities.

Mark your calendar on Facebook so you don’t forget!

Come and see! Holiday Faire Location 1157 South Road, South Kingstown, RI